S - Stop making excuses
T - Take stock
A - Act in faith
So today we move to: R - Refocus
If I want to get going again, if I want a fresh start, I need to change the way I think. Proverbs 4:23 (GNT), "Be careful how you think. Your life is shaped by your thoughts." The way you think, determines the way you feel. And the way you feel determines the way you act. If you want to change your actions change the way you think and it will inevitably change the way you act. If you are acting in a depressed, discouraged way as we start this new year, it's because you're thinking depressed, discouraged thoughts. That's your choice. You don't have to think those thoughts. If you're acting in fearful, worried ways it's because you're thinking fearful, worried thoughts. Change the way you think because it effects everything else in your life.
Romans 12:2 (NIV) says, "Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind."
If I have to refocus my thoughts to start over to get a fresh start, that means I have to stop thinking some old patterns. Let go of those things you regret that have happened in your life. There are mistakes, failures, bad, dumb decisions. But every time you think them over and over again, you're just reinforcing them in your mind. Your past is past! It's over, done. It's never going to be with you again. The book is closed, the door is shut. You have to change your mind and let go and get rid of those painful, hurtful memories of shame and guilt and other things.
How do you do that?
First, confession. Confess it to God and leave it with Him. You were never designed to carry it around, so leave it with Him.
You say, "I've confessed to God but I still feel guilty. How do I get rid of a painful memory?" That’s the second step:
Replace it.
If you say, "I'm not going to think about it! I'm not going to think about it!" What are you doing the whole time? Thinking about it. Stop focusing on what you don't want and start focusing on what you do want. Replace those memories by thinking about something else.
What's the best thing to focus on? God's word. The truth. Psalm 1:1-3 (GNT) says, "Happy are those who are always meditating on God's word. They're like trees along a river that do not dry up. They succeed in everything they do." Those are the two things that everybody wants in the new year. We all want to be happy and we all want to succeed. The antidote, the answer, the way we get those is the phrase right in the middle - "... meditating on God's word." That's the answer. The more you meditate on God's word, the more happy and successful you'll be. It's a promise from God.
What does it mean to meditate? Meditation is not just put your mind in neutral, sit in a lotus position and go, "Ahhmmmm!" If you look up the word meditate in a dictionary, it simply means "to focus, to concentrate, to think about something over and over in your mind." As you fill your mind with God's word, it begins to change your mind, your thinking. You stop seeing yourself as other people see you or as you have seen yourself and begin to see yourself as God does.
Philipians 4:8 (NLT) reminds us of what to think about, "Fix your thoughts on what is true and honorable and right. Think about things that are pure and lovely and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise." Replace the old way of thinking with the priorities God says are important.
If there's anything I want to say to you, it's this: Regardless of the failures you've had in your life, there is hope. It is never too late to start over. You are never a failure until you give up. Jesus Christ says you matter to Him and He can make the rest of your life turn out in a whole different way if you give Him the pieces of your life.
Let me give you an incredible verse from the book of Jonah. You know the story of Jonah. God told Jonah to go one direction and do something. He decided he'd do the exact opposite of what God wanted for his life. So God had to take him on a little Mediterranean cruise. After that cruise was over in Jonah 3:1(NIV) it says "And the word of the Lord came unto Jonah a second time." I'm so glad for that verse. Aren't you glad we serve the God of the second chance? And of the third, the fourth, the fifth and the tenth, and the 25th and the 100th. He is the God of grace who says, "Come to Me with your brokenness, come to Me with your failures, come to Me with your shame, come to Me with your guilt, come to Me with the messed up things you're done in your life and I can turn them around because I love you and I made you for a purpose."
I encourage you to re-focus, friends.......and let God help you with the process.
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