Sunday, May 31, 2009

Slow Fade

Casting Crowns (castingcrowns.com) has long been a favorite music group of mine. I love their music and the genuineness with which they play.

Yesterday I was cutting the grass and listening to some of their music. As I kept going back and forth across the lawn I had to fight the urge to sing along......it's a bit embarrassing to be singing at the top of your lungs with no music playing. Nonetheless, as I listened one line jumped out at me. The song is called "Slow Fade" and it speaks about how the journey into sin isn't an overnight thing, but takes place over time. People don't commit adultery in a moment, the idea gets planted, grows, eventually happens. That applies to virtually every sin. The line that stuck out to me said this:

"The journey from your mind to your hands is shorter than you're thinking."

Wow! Great truth there! How many times have thoughts crept into your mind that ultimately made it to your hands? Probably more times than you or I care to remember. That's why the Bible tells us: Keep your mind on things above, not on worldly things. (Colossians 3:2)

It's easy to get distracted and in the process have your life torn to shreds. Don't let it happen. Keep your heart and mind fixed on God. Someone once said, "You can't keep the bird from flying over, but you can keep it from building a nest." While that's true, my suggestion would be this: the next time the bird (temptation) flies over, shoot it! There will, no doubt, be more birds to follow, so keep a good supply of ammunition on hand!

Blessings, friends!!!

Here's a link to a great video of Casting Crowns song, Slow Fade:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n-8SYA6rfbs

Two Pieces of Advice

Although it’s been over seven decades since Babe Ruth played baseball and most of his records have been eclipsed by others, he’s still recognized as the greatest slugger who ever lived. The Bambino is truly an American icon.

Time after time, Ruth stepped up to the plate and hammered one out of the park. He was the first major leaguer to hit 60 homers in one season. His career record of 714 homeruns stood for nearly four decades (without steroids!). Every survey and ranking lists Babe among the "greatest of the greats" – usually at the top of the heap. It’s no wonder the old Yankee Stadium is still known as "The House that Ruth Built."

There’s another major league record holder worth noting. His name was Eddie "Cocky" Collins, who played as an infielder for the Athletics and White Sox. Collins played in the early 1900’s, and several seasons overlapped with Ruth.

Like Babe, Collins was at the top of his game. He led the Athletics to four pennants and three World Series titles. He was selected as the League’s Most Valuable Player in 1914 (Babe Ruth’s rookie season.) One sportswriter recently called him the greatest second baseman in history.

Cocky Collins set a record that still stands today – almost a century after he retired from baseball. He is the all time major league BUNT leader. 512 bunts! That’s over 100 more than the guy in second place, and twice as many as the active bunt leader, Omar Vizqual.

So we have two baseball greats before us – one is famous for home runs and other (not so famous) for bunting.

At first glance, holding the bunting record seems less than inspiring. Who would want that distinction? Home runs are much more exiting! The crowd, for instance, doesn’t go bananas when a player decides to lay down a sacrifice bunt.

With a deeper look, however, a bunt is a many splendored thing! Sacrificial acts for others are, indeed, noble and praiseworthy. We should all assume this posture as we relate to the people around us. The most valuable players in any team, business, or organization are those who ask "How can I serve you?" (Rather than "How can YOU serve ME?")

Those who selflessly invest their lives behind the scenes to help others advance are the greatest heroes – I think of teachers, medical workers, mothers, cooks, technicians, nurses, custodians, mentors, secretaries and other support staff. The world couldn’t exist without these unsung heroes.

This is the Lesson from Cocky Collins: Give yourself away. It doesn’t matter who gets the credit, as long as the team is moving forward in the right direction. There is great virtue in standing aside for the advancement of others. Here’s how Jesus said it in John 15:13: And here is how to measure it - the greatest love is shown when people lay down their lives for their friends.

However, we can learn a lesson from Babe Ruth too. Swing for the fence!! The Bambino didn’t hold back. He didn’t hesitate. He went for it and took the necessary risk. He committed himself FULLY and didn’t just play it safe. Sometimes the Babe hit leather and other times he hit air (1330 strikeouts) but all the time, he was swinging the bat!

God put it this way in Ecclesiastes 9:10: Whatever presents itself for you to do, do it with all your might...

Bottom Line?

Have a heart like Cocky Collins with a faith like Babe Ruth..

When it comes to serving others - make the sacrificial bunt.

When it comes to taking bold steps of faith – swing for the fence!

Out of the mess..........

I heard the story of an elderly minister who liked to visit people in hospitals. He often would take along a little, embroidered bookmark that he carried in his Bible. On the back of the bookmark were a group of tangled threads with no apparent pattern. He would hand this bookmark, with the back facing up, to those who were hurting or upset and say, "Look at that and tell me what it says."

As they looked at all the tangled threads, they would say, "I have no idea what it says. It doesn't seem to say anything."

Then he said, "Now, turn it over." As they would flip that bookmark over, they saw the words, "God is love." The minister would say, "Many times as we look at what God is doing, we just see tangled threads with no rhyme or reason. But from God's perspective, He is dealing with us in love, and He knows what He is doing."

The next time you think it is all over for you, open a Bible and read about Joseph who was sold into slavery by his brothers, falsely accused of rape and imprisoned, yet became the second most powerful man in all of Egypt. Read about Daniel, a young man who feared God and because of it was thrown into a pit filled with hungry lions. Yet, God closed the mouths of the lions and they didn’t lay a paw on him. Things looked hopeless as well for Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed_Nego when they refused to deny God and were thrown into the fiery furnace, yet God Himself was right there with them and they walked out unscathed. Things looked pretty grim for Peter when he was in prison, and for Martha and Mary when their brother died.

There’s no guarantee that your difficult situation is going to end up like these, but there is something you can count on. When you’ve placed your life in God’s hands, He’s promised: I will never leave you. I will never forsake you. (Hebrews 13:5) And when things look impossible, which sometimes happens, remember what Jesus said: Humanly speaking, it is impossible. But with God everything is possible. (Matthew 19:26)

You see, things can look bad at one moment, but then God will step in and turn events around. Then suddenly you'll look back and say, "Now I understand what God was doing."

Let me encourage you to move forward, even in the difficulties. Even when they look impossible......God can make the impossible possible.

Be Patient....God Hasn't Forgotten...

Andy Stanley makes a great statement about God's timing. He says, "We look at our watches; God looks at the calendar."

Waiting on God is a difficult habit to develop. By nature we're not patient, and our culture offers little encouragement to develop the habit. We want, we need, we think we deserve everything now.

In the Old Testament, Abraham’s wife, Sara, waited until she was very old for the son she had always dreamed about; Moses waited 40 years on the backside of the desert for God's call; Joseph languished in prison 13 years before God vindicated him. Even Paul spent 17 years in preparation before he began the ministry that God called him to on the road to Damascus. But you can be sure that each of these saints would say it was worth the wait. It always is.

But we don’t like to wait. We want things to happen now.......in fact, if things could happen yesterday it would be even better!

No doubt you're waiting for a number of things, too: direction in your life, healing of a broken body or a broken heart, peace, growth, vindication, success, go ahead....add to the list.

Today I encourage you to remember one thing: God is on his way.

Sometimes the night seems to last forever. Sometimes His silence seems permanent. That's because we look at the clock while He looks at the calendar.

Solomon wrote, "God has made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God's work from beginning to end." (Ecclesiastes 3:11)

We can’t see the whole scope of God's work, but the scope exists. And we may not see the big picture, but there is one. Today might be just another day of waiting for you, but here's how you can make it better: Take your eyes off the clock and turn them toward Jesus. Spend this time waiting in expectation rather than desperation. God is at work in your work in life, making all things beautiful in their time.

A Parable.....

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and 4 yr old grandson. The old man's hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered.

The family ate together every night at the table. But the elderly grandfather's shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.

The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. "We must do something about father," said the son. "I've had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor."

So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl!

When the family glanced in Grandfather's direction, sometime he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.

The four-year-old watched it all in silence. One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, "What are you making?"

Just as sweetly, the boy responded, "Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up." The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.

The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.

That evening the husband took Grandfather's hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.

Jesus often used parables to illustrate the lesson He was wanting to teach. Sometimes He would explain the parable, other times He did not. With that in mind, I’ll let you derive your own lessons from the above parable. I’m learning a few things.......yes, learning. I don’t have it all figured out...... Here are a few things I’m learning:

I’m learning that, no matter what happens, how bad it seems today, life does go on, and tomorrow will be a new day.

I’m learning that, regardless of your relationship with your parents, you'll miss them when they're gone from your life.

I’m learning that making a 'living' is not the same thing as making a 'life..'

I’m learning that you shouldn't go through life with a catcher's mitt on both hands. You need to be able to throw something back.

I’m learning that if you pursue happiness, it will elude you. But if you focus on your family, your friends, the needs of others, your work and doing the very best you can, happiness will find you.

I’m learning that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision.

I’m learning that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one. (I’m not learning this one fast enough.......but I’m learning.)

I’m learning that I still have a lot to learn!

And you?

What Are You Thankful For?

If you’re like me there are areas in your life you are constantly working on. One area for me is the area of being thankful. I’m a generally thankful person, at least in those areas where it’s easy to be thankful. I’m thankful for an amazing wife and two outstanding kids; I’m thankful for the opportunity to lead a phenomenal church, I’m thankful for great friends and a great community to live in. But it’s easy to be thankful for those things.....but sometimes there are things that are hard to be thankful for.

In her wonderful book, The Hiding Place, Corrie ten Boom relates an amazing story about the importance of being thankful. Corrie and her sister Betsy were held in a concentration camp known as Ravensbruk, where they lived in barracks that were plagued with lice. Lice were everywhere—in their hair and on their bodies.

One day, Betsy said to her, "Corrie, we need to give thanks to God for the lice."

Corrie said, "Betsy, you have gone too far this time. I am not going to thank God for lice."

Betsy said, "Oh, but Corrie, the Bible tells us, 'In everything give thanks.' "

Still, Corrie did not want to thank God for the lice. As it turns out, Corrie and Betsy were trying to reach the other women in their barracks with the message of the Gospel, and they had been holding Bible studies. Corrie found out later that because of the lice, the guards would not go into those barracks, and therefore, they were able to have their Bible studies. So it turns out that God can even use lice.

The verse Betsy referred to is in 1 Thessalonians 5:18. It says: In everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

If the Bible said, "In some things give thanks," I would say, "No problem there!" But it says, "In everything give thanks." That is not an easy thing to do.

This verse doesn't say we should give thanks FOR everything. I cannot give thanks for rapists, murderers, abusers and the like. It does, however, say to give thanks IN everything.

Bible commentator Matthew Henry, after being robbed, wrote this in his diary:

Let me be thankful...

* first because I was never robbed before.

* second, because although they took my wallet they did not take my life.

* third, because although they took my all, it was not much.

* fourth, because it was I who was robbed, not I who robbed.

He wasn’t thankful FOR being robbed, but even IN the robbery he found reasons to be thankful.

There are some things that happen, and I'm not glad they happened. But I’m working on being thankful in spite of the tragedies and asking God for His help.

And you?

One thing I AM thankful for, and that’s all of you!!!

Be The Best

Jeremiah was a prophet in the Old Testament. In the book that bears his name, chapter 19 & verse 11 it says: I know the plans that I have for you, declares the LORD. They are plans for peace and not disaster, plans to give you a future filled with hope.

Have you ever wondered "when your ship is going to come in?" Maybe you haven’t put it that way, but I’m sure the thought has crossed your mind a time or two. Well, hang in there friend, because God definitely knows what He’s doing.

Satchel Paige threw his first major league pitch at the age of 42. Actually, he was good enough to play in the majors at the age of 18, but he couldn't: Satchel Paige was black. Seven years after Jackie Robinson broke the color barrier in baseball, Paige, an undisputed superstar everywhere but in the major leagues, finally got his chance.

Cleveland owner Bill Veek was criticized for adding such an old man to his roster; some sportswriters and critics called it a publicity stunt. Others said Paige was finally getting the break he had deserved for years, though most doubted his ability to compete effectively at his age.

Paige silenced the critics when he won his first three games as a pro, shutting out Chicago twice in the process.

All along he knew he was good enough to pitch in the major leagues, and when he finally got his chance, he proved it. He went on to win 28 games during his pro career, and even made a brief comeback at the age of 59, pitching three innings for the Kansas City A's.

He approached his major league pitching debut no differently than he approached any of the 2,500 games he pitched during his career. "It was just another game," he said. "And home plate was where it always was."

Though Paige had the ability to make throwing a baseball look effortless, he spent his life perfecting the art. And, eventually, he got his chance to show the world he was capable of competing with the best.

King Solomon wrote this in Proverbs 22:29: Do you see a man skilled in his work? He will serve before kings; he will not serve before obscure men.

Solomon is emphasizing that commitment to quality is more important than self-promotion. Do your job well, he says, and you'll get your chance to serve before the best.

In the work that you do, you may have to wait years before you get your chance to play in the big leagues. And the fact is, the chance may never come in the way you would like. But you can be sure your time will come.

Your job? Work hard at what you do. Be the best. I spent some time with a great friend last week and we talked about some of the stresses of work. My advice to him is the same I’m giving to you: every day go to work for a new boss. Do your work as though you are working for God Himself. Always do your very best and put forth a first rate effort. Pursue excellence in everything because I can assure you, friends, your efforts do not go unnoticed!

Your time will come; never give up on the dream of being the best.